The past informs the present. In some cases, it more than
informs – it compels us to be the best version of ourselves. Few of
us think of ourselves as heroes. It is not a word we would use to
describe ourselves. Why should we? For those of us who are not on
the frontlines of care and protection, heroic deeds are not in our
wheelhouse.
Firefighters, police officers, the members of the Armed Forces,
doctors, nurses, EMTs – those people are easily identified as
heroes. That is part of their extraordinary calling – to serve and
protect, to heal and to hold.
But all of us are called to be heroes. Twenty-four years ago,
heroes rose from clouds of ash. They helped people move out of
harm’s way. They nurtured those who were injured or dazed. They
rushed in when many ran away.
9/11. It is the shorthand we use for September 11, 2001, much
like an earlier generation could just say December 7th, and the
year, 1941, the day of the week, Sunday, and the event, the bombing
of Pearl Harbor, was all understood. Not so much anymore.
I think of that this year, this 24th anniversary of the horrific
attacks that killed 2,983 people at the World Trade Center, at the
Pentagon, and in a field in Pennsylvania. I think of that on the
anniversary of the February 1993 World Trade Center bombing, as
well.
Time does not heal all wounds. It often just allows many of us
to ignore that some still grieve. Twenty-four years after 9/11,
there are families celebrating marriages, births, and graduations
without a father, or a mother, or a sibling, or a close friend.
Because so many of us want to move on, it is easy to forget there
are people, who while fully living their lives because that is what
they must do, still have an empty place within themselves where a
loved one should be.
The two most moving moments for me during the week of
commemorative events marking the anniversary of September
11th are the Rose Ceremony for Port Authority
employees that I wrote about earlier this week, and the Interfaith
Service held on 9/11 for Port Authority employees, retirees, and
those who have become part of the greater Port Authority family
these past decades.
There is a reason why these two events are so meaningful: They
are small, and they are personal. We lose sight that 9/11 was more
than a national tragedy. It was a personal one for the families and
loved ones or nearly 3,000 people. And the number of individuals
who have succumbed to illnesses related to 9/11 is more than double
that now.
Historians look at the big picture. We live in a small, single
frame, and in that relatively small space we see individuals who
have lost someone they loved. We see the spaces in the small frame
where someone is missing, and we know why.
This year is significant because next year is the 25th
anniversary of 9/11 and it will come not long after the national
celebrations marking 250 years since the signing of the Declaration
of Independence. Next year will be all about the big picture and
having spent so much of my professional career in elected office, I
know there will be crowds of officials great and small pushing to
get inside that big picture.
What happens to the families of the nearly 3,000 lost on 9/11,
or the more than double that number of the families of those who
died of 9/11-related illnesses? They will be in the picture, too –
somewhere in the back. That is the way history is written.
I am not a historian, and neither are most of you.
We need to clearly see the individuals who still feel 9/11
personally. They will be doing that every day they draw breath.
They will do that in years that will not have big-picture events
for the next 50-plus years.
It is easy to understand why most of us want to move on. It
doesn’t affect us, we think. But the heroes inside us – the heroes
that risked their lives on 9/11 without thinking whether it
affected them or not – call us to do better, to do more.
The heroes inside us do not require us to run into a building
before it collapses. But they demand us to remember those who did,
and those who could not be rescued. It is not physically a big
lift, but it may be the hardest and the heaviest thing we are
called to do because being a hero is hard work.
At the Port Authority, I am truly blessed to work with
individuals who were there in 1993 and 2001. I am blessed to see
individuals whose father or mother served at the Agency come to
serve now because it is their turn, whether it be working in an
office, at PATH, or as a member of the greatest police force in my
humble opinion, the Port Authority Police Department.
And like so many of you, I am blessed by my family, watching a
new generation move into its rightful place. It is a gift some
families will never fully experience. So, 9/11 and the 1993 World
Trade Center bombing are personal. We should see that in our small
frame. We do not need a big picture for that.
And we should 24 years later do what heroes did, and what heroes
do: Serve and protect, heal and hold.
There is no greater way to honor service and sacrifice, than by
freely offering both. May the memories of all we lost be a
blessing.
Kevin J. O’Toole is the Chairman of the Port Authority of
New York and New Jersey.
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